Draped fabrics make it very easy for me to function. Sometimes you don't need garments to be so snug to the body to feel exotic and sexy... First and foremost that type of confidence should come from within anyway... So if you lack that you have a lot to work on....it doesn't happen over night BUT it most happen at some point in time. Work on your inner BEAUTY and then watch the surface of your skin glow... Glow like it has never glowed before. Trust and believe.