To bare skin on the top portion of your body especially when the cleavage has a slight dip in it... you should probably keep the bottom portion of your body as modest as possible.. It is o.k. to feel extremely sexy but you have to know your limits. Flirtatious, sexy, fun, girly....you might as well say that I felt all of the above with this bustier top that sort of has a Katy Perry feel to it!!!